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GRAVE CONCERN
Pensioner Eileen Hook has condemned the
"desecration" of her parents' grave after earth
from a freshly-dug plot was dumped on top of it. The
mound of soil prevented Mrs Hook from laying flowers when
she visited the grave of her parents, Kate and Jack
Shepherd, formerly of Dryden Street, Normanton, at
Stenson Road Cemetery. Mr Shepherd died in 1961 and his
wife was buried with him after she died in 1991. The
earth Mrs Hook found had come from a new plot which had
been dug out next to her parents' grave. She was
accompanied on her journey to the cemetery by her
daughter, Lynn Kennedy, of Berwick Avenue, Chaddesden,
and said that they both burst into tears because were so
upset at what they found.
Mrs Hook, of Prince Charles Avenue, Mackworth, said,
"What they did is desecration and I think it's
really bad. There's so much earth and mud on my parents'
grave that I couldn't reach the flowers to change them. I
had even taken a bucket to clean the stone off with but
couldn't get to that either. My daughter and I both burst
into tears when we saw it." Mrs Hook phoned
Nottingham Road Cemetery, where all Derby's cemetery
staff are based, to complain but says she was told what
they had found was a normal working practice.
"The woman I spoke to said that this sort of thing
happened all the time. She was quite rude and I just
didn't need that because I was upset," she said.
"I suggested they have a small skip to keep the
earth in, rather than dumping it on other graves but was
told that I was being silly and they said 'can you
imagine a skip in a cemetery?' "But surely that
would be better than having to touch other people's
graves? In this day and age I couldn't believe what we
were looking at. My daughter and I just broke down."
But according to John Winters, director of commercial
services for the council, what Mrs Hook saw was standard
cemetery practice. He said, "Our standard procedure
when we dig a grave is to put earth on to any spare land.
However, as in this case, when we have to dig between two
used plots, then we have nowhere else to put it and we
have to place it on a grave. We make sure we remove any
pots and flowers first and then clear it up after the
funeral as best we can. When Mrs Hook telephoned our
staff member they did try to explain all this to her, but
she was clearly upset and not very receptive to our
explanation."
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